Are You Raising an Entitled Child
How does the mother feel who has worked like a dog to give her children everything that she didn have as a child, and her children are not satisfied and want more and more and more? Or the father whose every conversation with his daughter is punctuated repeatedly by her use of the word I?
Parents who overindulge certainly do not set out with the intention of raising entitled children; they are probably unaware that they are doing it. It is a struggle in our current culture to say no,michael kors crossbody outlet store, to deny, to push, or to discipline. Some parents fear that if they parent incorrectly they could psychologically damage their children, causing depression, drug abuse, broken relationships, and failure to succeed. Some may worry that if they discipline, their children will hate them,michael kors wallets for sale. Others enjoy their kids so much they would rather just be friends, and there are those who parent out of guilt for reasons such as divorce or loss.
Successful parents take a proactive role in their children lives. They set limits around spending and other requests, and manage children expectations. They establish strict boundaries around computer use, especially social networking sites that keep children inwardly focused. These parents create the child reality instead of allowing kids to view a skewed reality through different media channels. Effective parents teach kids that there is a clear difference between children and adults; that by virtue of education, hard work,cheap michael kors wallets, age and experience, adults are to be afforded respect. They emphasize the truth that children are not on a level playing field with their parents, teachers, instructors or coaches.
The time will come quickly for children when, after having paid their dues, they can make all of their own choices. If parents start early by instilling good values, modeling decent and loving behavior, and teaching respect,michael kors black purse, then their children will grow up to make smart choices, develop compassion for others, and appreciate the deeper meaning of life,michael kors purse online. The ultimate goal for most parents is to raise independent and gracious human beings with the ability to make appropriate and smart decisions, and who shift some of the focus away from themselves and onto others.
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